salam ramadhan everyone, today i will write about my most problem in my daily life, i'm always meet or have to face the fussy type person. or cerewet. yes. sometimes, i'm easily get annoyed yet menyampah. actually, some of my frens was fussy type lady n some of person i work with. So can you imagine, how i manage myself to be patient with these people?
Dulu of coz la kan, i like to mebebel sorang-sorang tak puas hati sebab kena melayan kerenah-kerenah manusia yang cerewet nih. Itu tak kena,ini tak kena, i want this, i want that. Sometimes to be fussy or perfectionist are accepted in doing a 'important' matter. But, u don't have to think that u r perfect. Yes, i know, you are try to be perfect to satisfying other peeps perception to u. Reality is, nobody is perfect. We are just a human being, always make a mistakes.
The key in handling these fussy type people is sabar, or patience.
I keep my mind to think positively.
Selawat & istighfar, and pray, may Allah open his/her heart to be calm,generous person.
Yes, i am not saying i'm the alim one, but believe in Allah. HE may help you to be patience with these peeps.
i like to share you with this story,
i met someone, and need to completing my task by meeting her/him(hahaha. well i'm not revealing he or she).
Everyone knows that she/he very the perfectionist person. I start to worried. how i manage to keep myself calm, how to be patient person. after meet him/her up, and of coz, i have to believe other peep thought about he/she. Even, there is situation, i'm losing my patient and almost cry n giving up. I called my mum.ask for her help n tips to facing again this 'special' creature.hahaha. she told me to perform solat hajat . in second sujud in last rakaat, pray in heart,n saying his/her fullname in your dhua in sujud. i'm just tried, not once la kan. of coz i have to do many times to seek HIS help. sebab kita semua makhluknya. Alhamdulillah, maybe my dhua was makbul by Allah swt. He/she become mot lembut hati person i've ever meet.
the key is. berbalik pada Maha Pecipta. insyaAllah.
love,
me
